What if the “honeymoon phase” wasn’t just a fleeting moment? What if we could keep those butterflies alive, even 5, 10, or 30 years into the relationship? Well, good news – you totally can!
It’s easy to slip into a routine and let life’s daily stressors chip away at the connection we share with our partner. Since we know they’re always there, we often put the relationship on the backburner. But here’s the secret: Your relationship should be the backbone of your life. Think of it like a team sport – without that deep connection and synchronicity, the game’s already over before it’s even begun. So, let’s make sure to keep the spark alive, and work together to make the relationship the MVP of your life!
“But it’s too late; we’re just too busy”
As humans, we’re always evolving and growing. So, if we stop dating our partner, we’re missing out on all the exciting new layers they’re constantly adding to themselves. Dating isn’t just about a night out – it’s about staying curious, learning, and connecting while having fun along the way.
Now, take a moment to think back to the early days of dating. Sure, some moments may have been awkward or a little weird, but wasn’t there also that spark of excitement and joy? What parts of that experience made your heart race? The fun adventures? The spontaneous moments? The laughs? Let’s be real – those are the things that made it all so memorable. And guess what? You can still have those moments. Dating your partner today means continuing to discover the new, amazing person they’ve become!
3 Tips to Dating:
- Intention is Everything:
Whether you’re curling up on the couch for a movie night at home or heading out for a fancy dinner, both can be equally fulfilling – as long as you set the right intention. Sure, you could just pop in a movie, but do you both see it as a true date night? Set the scene! Light some candles, grab your favorite snacks, and slip into those comfy clothes that scream “I’m here for a cozy date.”
And when it comes to dining out, how do you elevate it from a regular dinner to a special date night? Maybe you choose a new spot, put on that outfit that makes you feel amazing, or even throw in a bottle of wine or a decadent dessert to seal the deal.
The best part? You get to define what intention looks like for you two! The small things can make a huge difference in making the moment feel intentional and special. - Take Turns with the Planning:
It can feel like a lot of pressure if you’re always the one planning date nights. Whether you’re aiming for weekly or monthly outings, switch things up and take turns being in charge. This gives each of you the chance to be creative and show off your romantic (or fun) side – plus, it keeps the excitement alive! - Make it About the Two of You:
We know life gets busy – kids, work, endless to-do lists – but when it’s date night, try to put it all aside. External stressors can be a barrier to deeper connection. If you’re the type of couple who thrives on playful challenges, you could even turn it into a game: “First person to mention the kids pays for dinner,” or “If you complain about work, you owe the other a foot massage.” It’s about keeping things light, fun, and, most importantly, focused on the two of you. Dating is meant to be joyful and playful, so embrace that vibe!
